If I recall correctly (which I am) I wanted to see the second item because I was interested in it, I was not 100% sure if I was going to buy it. I did however buy the first item. The seller asked me to put an offer on the second item to hold it. I thought it was a pleasant transaction-just because someone offers to buy something and isn’t impressed when they physically see it, doesn’t guarantee a sale. Everyone has the right to decline buying an item if it isn’t what they expected!